You don't need to change, you just need to wake up
I’ve spent most of my life trying to change. From my weight, to my hair colour. I’ve tried to be more productive, more spiritual (I know), more confident. I’ve tried to be less sensitive and feminine. I even tried to change my accent when I was at uni, so that I’d fit in more.
If it doesn’t fit, change it. Right?
Here’s the truth: You are not broken. You don’t need fixing. It’s not about becoming someone else, it’s not even about becoming the best version of yourself.
You don’t need to become anything.
You just need to wake the fuck up.
Wake up to who you already are.
Wake up to what’s already inside of you.
Lovely, I know - you’ve been trying to avoid what’s inside you of. You have been blocking it out, numbing yourself with whatever works for you – food, wine, shopping, work, men. But I can promise you, the only way to experience the freedom, joy and abundance you deeply crave is to wake up to who you are at your core.
Not who you think you should be.
Not who you have been told you should be.
Not who anyone else is.
Who YOU already are deep down in the depths of your soul.
Something magical happens when we start to peel back all the layers that have built up – the expectations, judgment, fear, self-doubt. When we strip them away we step into our true power.
That’s what authenticity really means.
Stop doing what you think you should do.
Stop trying to do what everyone else is doing.
Stop striving to be ‘perfect’.
Stop trying to be better.
And here’s another thing – you don’t need a book or a program to tell you how to be your true self. You were born knowing.
But, and I’m sorry there is no way around it, you’re going to have to be willing to do the work. To let go of the things you’ve been clinging to that are not really a part of you. To feel, and to heal. To sit in the discomfort. To face the shadows.
I promise you this: when you wake up to who you really are, the world wakes up to it too. You start attracting your tribe, naturally. Opportunities flow to you. Creativity flows through you. You are lit up and that lights other people up too.
If you want to attract more clients into your business, the number one thing you need to do is wake up to who you are. Forget sales funnels, Facebook ads and perfectly written website copy. Get intimate with who you are and LIVE it. Document it. Share it. And watch as you effortlessly attract the right people into your circle.
The world needs what you have to offer, it needs your uniqueness. Not the you that is trying to be like everybody else. Not the you that is a mask hiding the truth.
Follow your intuition. Those little whispers from your heart? Listen to them, they know the way.
It’s time to wake up.